The relationship between a guy and a girl is a complicated thing. Usually we do not have time to notice what mistakes our partner makes, and often we dive in terribly difficult and unhappy relationships. But this can be avoided if you pay attention to the behavior of the partner. Let's discuss things that a guy shouldn’t allow.
Material Content:
- 1 Leave without holding the door
- 2 Not satisfy you
- 3 Do not meet / do not escort you
- 4 Eat whole pizza in one sitting
- 5 Beat you
- 6 Insult you
- 7 Make you choose between him and friends
- 8 Pay for everything
- 9 Do not pay for anything
- 10 Compare you with your ex
- 11 Compare you with your mother
- 12 Get fat
- 13 Take you for granted
- 14 Criticize you in public
- 15 Watch a lot of adult movies
- 16 Too much cologne
- 17 Dress idiotic
- 18 Make you say goodbye to a dream
- 19 Make you feel stupid
- 20 Tell you about losing weight
- 21 To control you
- 22 To be jealous
- 23 To be evil
- 24 Don't protect you
- 25 Threaten to break up
- 26 Track your calls and SMS
- 27 Make you feel guilty when you're busy
- 28 Flirt with other girls
- 29 Breaking promises
- 30 Talk about how good the other girls are
- 31 Constantly making excuses
- 32 Change
Leave without holding the door
You are still his girlfriend, not just a friend. There must be some kind of special attitude.
Not satisfy you
If a guy constantly requires oral caresses, but does not want to do the same thing, then you should have a serious conversation with him about equality.
Do not meet / do not escort you
This is another sign of attention. If he is too lazy to meet you in the yard or get out of the car to take you home, then let him walk without you.
Eat whole pizza in one sitting
He must share with his potential wife.
Beat you
No mercy. If he hit you at least once, roughly grabbed it, or otherwise caused physical damage, then immediately break the relationship. It will only get worse.
Insult you
Even in a playful way.In the future, this will turn into constant humiliation.
Make you choose between him and friends
It makes no sense to arrange such a kindergarten. Both friends and a loved one are worthy of attention. Lovers should not be attached to each other on an ongoing basis. Let each other breathe freely.
Pay for everything
So he will push you around using his wallet.
Do not pay for anything
Then he will become an alpha.
Compare you with your ex
If your boyfriend often mentions the former in a positive way, and even reproaches you, then you should think about breaking up. It seems that he is not yet ready to forget past love and appreciates it more than you.
Compare you with your mother
Constantly comparing you to mommy? So let, in fact, live with her. What the hell did he decide to start his own separate family.
Get fat
You started dating, and he suddenly relaxed? Stopped practicing, started gaining extra weight? All leads to complete obesity. Explain to the guy that the relationship is not a reason to forget about your appearance.
Take you for granted
You probably got it to work, and if not, it does not mean that you can be treated as a thing. You are a person who can leave at any moment. Let your boyfriend remember this.
Criticize you in public
All quarrels should remain behind closed doors. No humiliation or insult in the circle of friends.
Watch a lot of adult movies
If this happens from time to time, then do not worry. If he is addicted to eroticism, then it's time to sound the alarm. His hobbies will affect your relationship.
Too much cologne
Men, like some women, sometimes overdo it so much that it is impossible to stand next to them.
Dress idiotic
Most guys don't know how to dress at all. Help your partner if you do not want to walk with a clown.
Make you say goodbye to a dream
In a relationship, you sometimes need to compromise, but not sacrifice.
Make you feel stupid
Again the issue of equality. If he behaves as if he knows everything, and you are just a traffic jam, better run from him.
Tell you about losing weight
If a guy directly tells you that you are fat, then he obviously lacks tact. Do not allow this. If he goes in a roundabout way and hints, then listen. None of you should get fat.
To control you
You are an independent person, no surveillance or excessive control.
To be jealous
This requirement is true if you do not give cause for jealousy. Otherwise, it is leveled.
To be evil
Sometimes we all break down even on loved ones. If this happens constantly and you always live in anger, then it's time to leave.
Don't protect you
He is still a man. You have chosen him as a support.
Threaten to break up
Threats are generally not the best way to build relationships. Stop such manners immediately.
Track your calls and SMS
In a healthy relationship, it’s common to share access to your gadgets. Nevertheless, if this is not agreed in advance, but he still creeps into your phone, then you should seriously think about breaking up.
Make you feel guilty when you're busy
He is not a child. If he is offended when you are not around, this is his problem. You may have other plans.
Flirt with other girls
You are still in a relationship.
Breaking promises
Life is unpredictable. Things happen. But if the guy promised something, let him try to do his best to keep his word.
Talk about how good the other girls are
If a guy is staring at another girl, do not make noise. If he decided to comment on the situation and say how beautiful the lady passing by was beautiful, then this is not normal.
Constantly making excuses
For any delay, mistake, and so on. He certainly can have a good reason, but you must not forget that you are angry. Guilt needs to be redeemed.
Change
Unless, if you have an open relationship.
