30 things you can’t say to your boyfriend

The relationship between a man and a woman is a complex thing. You must be able to make concessions, say the right things and keep silent on time. At the same time, girls sometimes forget that guys also have certain feelings that can be hurt. Here is a list of phrases and questions that should not be voiced when communicating with your partner.

You're not strong enough

It is just very disappointing. No matter what stage of the relationship you are in, you should not say so.

I'm much taller than you

This is a sore subject. Society believes that a man should be taller than a girl. No need to focus on this.

Are you balding

Men sometimes go bald, yes. Sometimes in youth. No need to talk about this in the initial stages of a relationship.

Why is your beard unevenly growing?

Better just say that you don't like her and ask for a shave. Don't make the guy feel awkward.

I don't want to hug you (kiss)

If the reason is in some shortcomings of his body, then it is generally better not to meet with him.

I would like legs like you

Not every guy is pleased to hear that he has feminine legs.

Where did you get so much hair from?

Guys have more testosterone. Therefore, body hair is much larger. It is foolish to reproach and laugh at it.

Wow, do you really know how to pull yourself up?

Stop doubting your boyfriend’s physical fitness.

You have a unique genital

The word “unique” as it alludes to some kind of flaw. No need to use it.

You do not know how to change tires

Sometimes guys don’t understand cars or electronics, but they don’t want to admit it. Do not talk about it without the need.

I dream of finding a guy like you

It is foolish to talk about such a boyfriend. After all, here he is.

You are like a brother to me

Another phrase that breaks the heart of the guy who cares for you.

Your ex disgusting

Whatever it is, do not humiliate the choice of your partner. Someone might say that about you.

My girlfriend is so attractive

So you automatically provoke the guy’s imagination and endless requests for intimate contact with the three.

I hate my stomach (legs, arms, eyebrows)

So you do yourself a disservice, focusing the guy on your shortcomings.

I hate my ex

So you are likely to let the guy know that if they part, you will also hate him.

Be a man

This is a forbidden phrase that will break a guy’s self-esteem to smithereens.

You have such a beautiful (sweet, strong) friend

Do not make your partner jealous of you to his friends. So you ruin his relationship with friends and your own.

I hate your friends

Treat his companions neutrally, even if you don’t too much for them. They are close to him.

My ex did it, and you?

It doesn't matter what it is about, but it is better to avoid such comparisons.

Will you introduce me to that guy?

Here it is already clear that flirting with other people with your boyfriend is very stupid.

I had a better relationship

Worse hatred of the former is only excessive love for them. If something is not going well in your relationship, then this is an occasion to go on the path of correction, and not for offensive comparisons.

You're too infantile

Not all guys behave like brutal alpha males, and not everyone wants to become businessmen. If your partner loves to ride a skateboard or wants to become a rock star at 30, then it is useless to redo it.

Need to talk

It sounds very scary and tense. Men do not really like serious conversations. Always specify.

You need a better job

Perhaps he is doing his favorite thing and does not want to change anything. Do not reproach him for this and hint at a higher income.

No help from you

It sounds insulting. Especially if a man provides for a family. And also, when the girls do not ask for help and hope for the guy’s initiative.

How much did you drink?

This phrase sounds like a censure. Even if your partner got drunk, you should not anger him with such reproaches.

Is she prettier than me?

These provocative questions are simply annoying. After all, it is clear that you ask them to increase your own self-esteem.

Am I your mom?

Some men are really looking in girls for a partial replacement for their mother. There is nothing to worry about. As well, there is nothing wrong with washing the dishes once again with your husband or boyfriend.

If you don’t like something, go away

The right way to leave. Any more or less determined guy will leave. If you don’t want to work on a relationship together, disagree.